A couple of years ago for Valentine’s day, I bought a bag of Nestle’s chocolate Crunch hearts to give to Sam. On Vday, I placed a few of them on the table as decoration for our dinner. Subsequently after that, I would dispense them in random places at random times where I knew he would find it — in the pantry, on his Perspectives binder, in his car, glued to a card, etc. It made him smile every time he found one.
This year, I wanted to do a reprise of the “hearts surprise”, so after Vday, I got some Crunch hearts on sale. Then I put two hearts on his nightstand. When he came home from work and put his keys and cell phone down, he discovered them. I heard him murmur a sound of surprise, but when he came out to me, he had a look of confusion. With a laugh, he said, “Did you find my stash?” Then it was my turn to return his look with confusion. Then he stammered an “uh” as he went back into the room and then back out again. He then revealed to me that he had bought me a bag of Crunch hearts too!! He was planning to dispense them as surprises just as I had. So then of course, we just laughed that we had the same idea (and that I had beat him to his brilliant idea).
It’s been over a month since Valentine’s day, and we are still surprising each other at random times in random places. If it’s one thing I love about our marriage, it’s that we are always surprising each other with something. (Sometimes the surprise isn’t necessarily a nice gift — like me hiding behind the door when he comes home and jumping out with a “boo!” heehee.) It’s not that we buy expensive things and shower each other with diamonds but just that we do little things that don’t cost us a cent (like Sam would sneak out of bed on a Saturday morning to make me hash browns). We do it because it’s fun to make each other feel loved.
I think that’s what God is like with us. He gives us a glorious sunset and answers our petty prayer for a prime parking spot — little things and big things, surprises galore, simply because He so delights in making us feel loved. The question is how often do I miss it? and how am I seeking to ‘surprise’ Him with a demonstration of my love?
Perhaps He’d like a chocolate heart…
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