September 14, 2006
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Women should not be silent...
Not much posting these days because of the mental, verbal and virtual discussion over women in ministry. If you haven't been following, you'll have to read my original post and the comments from my second post.
Background information
The first time I ever came across the 1 Timothy passage, I went and asked my pastor about it. What does it mean? I had only been a Christian for less than a year and was eager -- very eager -- to know the Truth and to live it out - whatever the truth may be. Rather than pressing his viewpoint (complementarian), Pastor Ron gave me guidelines for understanding hard passages of Scripture. He said that we always have to ask whether something that is written is a principle or a prescription. In other words, was what was written meant only for the people at that time within that culture -- and so therefore what principles can we apply from it? Or is what was written a prescription -- something we must apply directly? He urged me to study the Scriptures, wrestle with the Holy Spirit and come to conclusion. So I studied both sides of the argument in great depth for a long time - to the point where I was able to argue either side for either side.When it comes to studying the Scriptures, I believe that good hermeneutics always considers the larger context to which it has been written and examines whether the exhortations from that time apply directly to us today. The epistles were not written in a vacuum but written to address a certain time and situation. I believe that we would be misunderstanding God's heart if we do not consider the original intention of the original author. I believe this is the approach we must take when studying these hard passages currently under scrutiny about women's role in the church. The 1 Timothy 2:11-15 passage is one of the most pointed texts used for the stance that "women cannot be pastors/preachers/teachers" -- but I believe the notes from the study of that passage which I posted a few days ago tells us the contrary -- that women can teach and have authority over both women and men. My conviction on the matter is not based on feelings (as some have pointed out because of my "dreamers" post). On the contrary, Scripture has persuaded me from my original inclination toward the position that "women can't teach" to the truth that "women can teach".After I posted the exegesis of 1 Timothy, among others' comments, I was sent an email of disagreement which referenced Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, a compiliation of essays which includes arguments that women should remain silent in the church. I was challenged to read chapter 9, which was written by Douglas Moo and discusses the 1 Timothy 2:11-15 passage at length. For most who hold this view, this book is probably the authority on this stance (especially since it has John Piper's stamp of approval on it). These were some of my thoughts as I was reading this essay -- which may or may not address some of the questions that may have come up:ImplicationsWhat happens when you apply the stance that women cannot teach?P. 180 from RBMW, "All Christians are encouraged to study the Scriptures; but Paul expressly limits 'teaching' to a restricted number who have the gift of teaching. Of course, if we define teaching in a broader sense - the communication of Christian truth through private conversation, family devotions, etc. - we may conclude that all Christians do indeed 'teach.'" But he goes on to argue that women cannot teach if it means to "be engaged in expositing and applying biblical truth to men." I absolutely agree that teaching should be left to those who have been called and have been given the gift of teaching, but I believe that God can give the gift of teaching ("expositing truth") to women. This point of view, which Douglas Moo asserts, that women can teach in certain contexts but not in others seems inconsistent. He is claiming that a woman can teach another man something if it's one-on-one or for family devotions to her grown children, but if it's a bit of a larger group, then she cannot teach. How does the number of people, the room they are in ( i.e. sanctuary) or formality of the context (sunday worship service vs. small group) make a woman's insights in the Word less valid -- or even invalid?P. 181, "...we argue that the teaching prohibited to women here includes what we would call preaching, and teaching of Bible and doctrine in the church, in colleges, and in seminaries. (Who decides these things? So does this mean women can't teach in Christian colleges but can they teach in Christian high schools? What makes a woman able to teach an 18 year old when he's in high school, but then suddenly when he graduates high school and enters college, her teaching becomes invalid? ) Other activities - leading Bible studies, for instance - may be included, depending on how they are done. (So I presume that "depending on how they are done" means that a woman can facilitate a study; she can ask questions but as soon as she proclaims truths which the Word is saying, then it is wrong. How can this be right?) Still others - evangelistic witnessing (but what if she was preaching the gospel to men, is that then wrong?), counseling, teaching subjects other than Bible or doctrine (so she can teach men about literature or math but she can't teach them about the Bible? ) - are not in our opinion, teaching in the sense Paul intends here."These "rules" and "guidelines" defining when and where women can teach seem arbitrary to me. Some churches/denominations say women can teach high school boys, some say not. Some say women can teach men in Sunday school classrooms, as long as it's not on the pulpit. Some say women can "share" on the pulpit, just not teach (is this just a matter of semantics?) Women are permitted to share their testimonies and experiences but cannot share from the Scriptures in an authoritative way - to encourage and exhort the congregation to follow Truth? Come on. God is not so arbitrary as this, is He? The inability to apply this stance across the board shows the inconsistency of this line of thinking.From the BibleBottom of p. 183 from RBMW admits that though Paul had exhorted believers to greet one another with a holy kiss, we ought not do so today because that was fitting for the culture at that time but is not fitting for our culture today. So my question is how do we know that kissing is something we should drop but that 'women remaining silent' is something we should maintain? Wasn't that exhortation only relevant to that time when women were uneducated rabble-rousers? How did Douglas Moo decide which to keep and which to drop? The answers do not satisfy. His arguments could seem rational, but you must admit at the end of the day that it's totally subjective.p. 185, "Gen 2:14 in conjunction with 1 Timothy 2:13, is intended to remind the women at Ephesus that Eve was deceived by the serpent in the Garden (Gen 3:13) precisely in taking the initiative over the man...in the same way, if the women at the church at Ephesus proclaim their independence from the men of the church, refusing to learn in 'quietnes and full submission', seeking roles that have been given to men in the church, they will make the same mistake Eve made and bring similar disaster on themselves and the church." I think this is a slippery slope argument. But this argument is not only bad because it's saying if A, then an exaggerated B will definitely happen. (Disaster, huh?) It's bad because I am not sure that A is even true. "indpendence from men" "seeking roles that have been given to men" The author is assuming that it's a given that roles of authority have been given to men over women. What is the biblical basis for that thinking? Have these roles really been given to men? And furthermore, was it independence of man or independence of God that was the sin issue? It was God! Eve disobeyed God and sinned against God, not Adam. Moo goes on to say the following to prove his meaning:P. 185, "Both the logic of this passage and the parallel in 1 Cor 11:3-10 make this clear: for Paul, the man's priority in the order of creation is indicative of the headship that man is to have over woman." I do not see this conclusion as clear. "First" does not mean "priority" nor does it imply "head". For all we know, second could be best. After all, God made Eve last -- to crown all his creation -- and furthermore, it was only AFTER she was made that He said "VERY good."(not that i am making an argument that women are better than men; but if people are going to make an argument for headship based on order of creation, then i'd say this argument is also legit.)
The idea of headship from order of creation is also disproven in the evidence we have that God had a personal, intimate relationship with BOTH Adam and Eve before the fall. It wasn't that he had a relationship with Adam only and had him teach and pass down information as a chain of command (as many would argue). God had relationship with both BEFORE THE FALL as we can see by Gen 3:2-3 when she quotes God as having told both of them not to eat of the tree (see my xanga entry for this argument). There was no hierarchy/headship/ruling prior to the fall. The "ruling" of man over woman which we see today is a result of the curse, an adverse consequence of the fall, and NOT what God had originally intended when He created man and woman in His own image.Moo continues his arugment: p. 185, "The woman's being created after man, as his HELPER, SHOWS the position of SUBMISSION that God intended as inherent in the woman's relation to the man..." I am pretty appalled by this argument. I know it *does* sound plausible IF you didn't know the actual meaning of the word "helper" which is used here, but Douglas Moo should've done his homework. The word for "helper" in this verse in Hebrew is "ezer". The word ezer is used very often in the psalms -- each time in reference to God. For example, Ps 46:1, "God is...an ever-present HELP in trouble." EZER is used to describe God's help for us. Ezer means "divine aid and assistance." God's help toward man would NEVER be defined as a lesser, more subordinate one helping a superior (as is argued here about woman being man's helper). God is actually superior and WE are the ones who are at a loss and needing help, and He helps us. He is not at a position of submission toward man, the one He helps, right? In the same way, I do not believe we can argue that since God says that it wasn't good for man to be alone and he needed a woman to be his ezer, woman is therefore in a position of submission and man is in position of authority (or "head"). If anything, we can see that it's men who are at a loss and needy, and NEED women's help.A woman is needed to be a man's divine aid and assistance; an extension of God to him.
In the end...
This debate could go on and on forever -- we can talk about the 1 Cor passage and all the other passages -- we can read all the scholars' exegeses on the matter, but in the end, in the end, we must just admit that the arguments for both sides are very strong and convincing. And from both sides, I think we can break down all the arguments to two things: One: when Paul wrote the letters to the churches, it was to the cultural context of spiritually uneducated women who instigated dissension and disseminated false teaching. and Two: We must decide whether we believe that his encouragement for those women from then to be silent to be true for the spiritually educated women of today? The thing we cannot agree on is whether the answer is yes or no.So, in the final analysis, I think we need to take a step back and ask ourselves and ask God what the Truth is. What is God really like? What would be consistent to what we know of His character?And then...Could it be possible that God desires for both men and women to teach and preach? If it is true, then many churches have done a disservice to the body by prohibiting women from preaching, and, furthermore, have sinned in their prohibition of women to exercise the gifts that God has given them -- and they will be accountable to God alone. If it is not true, then the women who have been used mightily by God to edify and encourage others and expanded His Kingdom -- have sinned?I agree with Daniel's sentiments -- On the day when I am standing before God, I'd rather be one who strove to honor Him by speaking Truth than by remaining silent about Him.
Comments (20)
"Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy." + 1 Peter 1:16 KJV
"Take ye heed, watch and pray: for ye know not when the time is." + Mark 13:33 KJV
Dear sister in Christ (searchingfortreasures),
Please read the following Biblical answers:
“Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. 7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.” + 1 Peter 3:1-7 KJV
“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.” + 1 Timothy 2:9-13 KJV
“Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.” + 1 Corinthians 14:34, 35 KJV
“But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: 2 That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. 3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” + Titus 2:1-5 KJV
So clear, praise God. Some Christians take the Titus 2:3,4 verses to “prove” that women are allowed to teach. That’s fine, they may teach, but read carefully who they may teach, and what to teach (domestic matters). And which women may teach? --The aged women. And where may they teach? Please read the other verses above. It certainly is not to teach at church or amongst the church family gathering. Wives are even exhorted to learn by asking their husbands at home, because women are to keep silence in the churches, and it is a shame for women to speak in the church. So clear, praise God.
"But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen." + 2 Peter 3:18 KJV
+ByGraceHisOwn
Paul also said guys should be quiet in 1 Tim 2:2 (same Gr. as 1 Tim 2:12).
hmm...who are you (+ByGraceHisOwn)?
After talking with Natalie about this and reading your and various other posts, I am tempted to post a response, and if/when I have time to post a careful and thoughtful one I will. Unfortunately, for the moment I cannot. I am encouraged at the discussion, though.
Ditto im4GMG. I appreciate your thoughts here and in the original posts, Mary Ann. hope to write/talk more substantially on this topic soon.
see my email...
So, how come women will be able to prophecy (which is the greater gift between itself and teaching) but not be able to teach? It's because Women were designed for the best, and men for the mundane.
Just kidding. You know my stance already.
interesting post. many times i don't understand this differentiation of "roles" between men and women very much, like what God really meant by it 100%. i also find it hard to distinguish in some cases between principle and prescription. but i do know this. i received a lot of TRUTH and grew a lot through you mary ann! whether it was when you shared during a nav large group meeting or when you led Bible studies. i totally would not have wanted to you remain silent during those times!
MaryAnn,
This is Graydon, speaking for Melody and myself.
I agree with you on some of your points made in this excerpt
-all the various giftings of the Holy Spirit are for both men and women (including teacher, pastor, leadership)
Although I respect your opinion, I don’t agree with your interpretation of Genesis 3 on which you are basing a large portion of your interpretation of 1 Tim 2 passage. So I have posted my thoughts on Genesis 3 in another comment because I think it is more of a supporting argument rather than a central passage.
But I believe there are mainly other factors and Scriptures that need to be seriously considered on the topic of gender and roles in the church:
HUSBAND / WIFE AUTHORITY
Of course, I’m sure you know of all the New Testament commands that clearly explains the roles of headship and authority in marriage:
1 Corinthians 11:3
3But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.
Ephesians 5:22-24
22Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
23For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.
24But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
Colossians 3:18
18Wives, be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord
1 Peter 3:1-7
1In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, ….
AMAZINGLY WE SEE SOME CLEAR PARALLELS:
Jesus Christ Servant Leader Over ----> Church
Husband Servant Leader Over ----> Wife
Church Elders Servant Leaders Over ----> Flock of believers
CHURCH LEADERSHIP / HEADSHIP – MALE/ FEMALE ROLES
Elders rule over the church in servant headship. Elders must be males.
1 Timothy 3
1It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do. 2An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money. 4He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity 5(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?),
Titus 1
5For this reason I left you in Crete, that you would set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you, 6namely, if any man is above reproach, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of dissipation or rebellion.
It’s clear from Scripture that church headship is to be male only. All the commands/ criteria for selection of elders leave no room for appointing female elders. So a woman with the gift of pastor or leadership cannot be an elder according to the qualifications for elders.
There are no examples of women elders in the scriptures, nor are they encouraged to seek such an office.
THE ROLE OF THE ELDERS
1 Peter 5
1Therefore, I exhort the elders among you, as your fellow elder and witness of the sufferings of Christ, and a partaker also of the glory that is to be revealed,
2shepherd the flock of God among you, exercising oversight not under compulsion, but voluntarily, according to the will of God; and not for sordid gain, but with eagerness;
3nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge, but proving to be examples to the flock.
1 Timothy 5:17
The elders who rule well are to be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching.
The elders are the ones that are shepherding, exercising oversight, and ruling over the church in servant hood. And it’s clear to me that women are not to be in these positions of headship in the church, according to the qualifications to become an elder. But this does not limit a woman’s opportunity to serve in teaching and preaching as long as they are in submission to the elders.
It is important to note that the function of the position determines what commands should be followed in the Bible, not just the title of the position. I am a campus leader with the Navigators at UCSD, but I consider myself an elder of this flock of believers because I am fulfilling the role of an elder. Likewise, a person could be on the “board of elders” at a church, but really the head pastor is the one fulfilling the biblical elder role is he is the one shepherding, overseeing and ruling.
Think about it, if a church were to be headed by a married woman pastor/elder, how could she possibly provide an example of submission to her husband’s authority while being the leader of his church (unless he went to a different church which would be disfunctional)? Here’s what would happen… the church would become full of domineering wives that would take control of their families just like the woman pastor/elder took control of the church. And the husbands would curl up and become weak men. Then the women would not be attracted to the strong, protecting men they once knew on their wedding day because he is now a wimp. I’ve seen it happen in a church firsthand. The negative effects on marriages would be widespread in that church.
Other complications of women being pastor/ elder headship:
-What happens when the woman has a child, how could she then head up a church and at the same time be a godly mother?
-How can a woman pastor lead a church with strength and authority and at the same time exercise the characteristics of a godly woman in 1 Peter 3:4 “… the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God” ?
IN CONCLUSION:
Finally, women are highly and equally valued in ministry service to the church and the lost:
-a group of women were with Jesus on His ministry tours (Luke 8:1-3; Matt 27:55; Mark 15:41)
-God entrusted women to carry the news of Jesus’ resurrection to the 12 (Mark 16:6-8; Lk 24:11)
-In Christ we are equally valued “neither male nor female” Gal 3:28.
-In Romans 16, out the total of 29 people commended for ministry service, 10 were women.
-Women in the NT had ministries of hospitality, service, and good works (1 Cor 16:19; Col 4:15; 1 Tim 2:10; 5:9-10)
My conviction is that women with the gift of teaching or pastor should be allowed to teach/ pastor men on occasion under the headship of the male elders, but mainly they should teach/ pastor women and children. I base this on direct scriptural commands for women:
Titus 2:3-5
3Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.
I believe today’s society has put so much value on being a leader that women don’t feel as valued when their role in the church is not that of headship. But in God’s eyes, “a gentle and quiet spirit” and submission to authority is precious and life-giving to men and to the church. Praise God for women! Thank you God for women with the gift of teaching. We need you to serve with us men! We’re in this together!
As I mentioned in the previous comment, I believe there are mainly other factors and Scriptures that need to be seriously considered on the topic of gender and roles in the church.
Although I respect your opinion, I don’t agree with your interpretation of Genesis 3 on which you are basing a large portion of your interpretation of 1 Tim 2 passage. So here are my thoughts on Genesis 3:
YOU SAID:
Challenges: This verse in conjuction with Gen 2:16-17 is often used to argue about the hierarchy of man over women based upon the order of creation (i.e. Adam was formed first).
The argument goes as follows: "God formed man first, then He spoke directly to man to command him not to eat of the tree, but it appears that he did not speak directly or tell the woman, and so therefore, 'we' are led to believe that man was to tell/teach woman God's ways."
The truth goes as follows: In Gen 3:2-3 after the serpent challenges Eve about what God did or did not say, she quotes what she heard God say, "You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die." In the original Hebrew language, the "You" is "You plural." In other words, she is quoting God as saying, "You guys" or "Y'all" or "You all" or "You both" or "Ustedes" -- the plural has been lost in the English translation.
What is the implication? This means that God spoke to the both of them and told both of them directly what his commands and rules are.
Therefore, though man may have been formed before woman, God had direct relationship with both man and woman. He taught both directly. The argument that man needs to teach woman is null or that he is above her in hierarchy is also null.
MY INTERPRETATION OF GENESIS 3:
The Bible does not say that Eve quotes what she heard God say. She simply knew about the command somehow.
Genesis 3:2-3 (NASB)
The woman said to the serpent, "From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat;
but from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, 'You shall not eat from it or touch it, or you will die.'"
(NIV) …but God did say, 'You must not eat….
(KJV) …God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it….
(NKJV) …God has said, ‘You shall not eat it….
Here’s what we know:
-God created man first Gen 2:7-8
-God placed man in the garden to cultivate it and keep it Gen 2:15
-God spoke the command to man by himself before Eve existed Gen 2:16
You have added on the assumption that God spoke directly to Eve.
So I don’t see where Eve claimed to hear from God directly. It seems much more likely that she heard the command from her husband… that Adam was expected to pass on the command to his wife. And this view is supported by God’s reaction to the fall.
Who did God approach first after the fall?
The man, because he was responsible for the actions of his wife. He is head over his wife. She is a helper to him to accomplish their calling (to keep the garden and multiply, the mission given to Adam). Of course Adam was a loser when he didn’t protect his wife from the serpent.
If God did actually give the command directly to Eve, and she was the one who ate first, WOULDN’T GOD HAVE APPROACHED HER first as the person responsible for this disobedience? But He didn’t, He came to Adam first. The one responsible because he was in headship over his wife.
On Genesis 3...
In Hebrew, the 'you' in the verse "but God did say, 'You must not eat….' is plural. The plural is lost in translation in english translation. But if you look at other translations in different languages(such as Chinese translation which was translated directly from Hebrew) or if you know Hebrew yourself, you will find that the 'you' in that verse is plural. Thus God spoke to both Eve and Adam. Keep in mind that this is before the fall, so Eve must not have lied or exaggerated. That's how we come to the conclusion that God has personally taught both Adam and Eve, also Adam did receive the command earlier since he was created earlier.
BTW why does headship have to translate to positional leadership? Husband has headship over wife, sure. But I don't see how that should translate to any men can have headship over me at a church setting. A woman pastor can still submit to her husband and her husband can still have headship over her. Headship does not equal to positional authority. And this headship relationship within marriage should not get carried over in ministry roles. Christ is the head of the church, and my husband is the head of me, but not all men in the congregation are heads of all women in the congregation.
Genesis 3-
Eve did sorta lie "before" the fall. God never said that if they touch the fruit, they will die. God said eat everything but not that fruit. Eve added the not being able to touch the fruit herself (or maybe Adam told her that...who knows)
I agree with both MaryAnn and Graydon on various parts of what they believe. I agree with MaryAnn that if someone has truth to share, why not share it. I agree with Graydon in that there is no specific biblical backing for women heading up a church. This goes back to the principle and prescription thing again...i guess it's easy to say one is one over the other when we want to hear what we want to hear (i'm not saying either arguement is blantantly self satisfying). we can try our best to interpret but only the authors of the books and God can tell us for sure what was really meant. But this arguement has torn more than one relationship apart, including relationships of ppl i care about...and that makes me sad. In the long run I like to ask myself, what am i willing to die for? The Gospel or the role of men and women in church?
I've heard the interpretation of Eve 'adding things on' before (from an IV press bible study actually). But after pondering upon it, how can Eve possibly or sorta lie before the fall? Sin hasn't entered into the world yet. If you believe that sin entered after she took a bite out of the fruit, then she must be telling the truth at the time when she was talking to the serpent.
I just really can't resist continuing this discussion. It sharpens my mind.
Graydon,
The key to your argument is that God appointed man head, and as long as he is head, he has the authority to allow women to preach and teach.
So I suppose we got the key issue out of the way, which is can women teach men?
The issue of headship is a complicated one. I agree that God has given men headship. This, however, is not the same as giving men authority over women. Headship in the bible has never been equal to positional authority. Headship is spiritual authority and spiritual authority is only achieved through servanthood. Headship has NOTHING to do with being a pastor or an elder or being the head pastor or elder of a church.
The main misunderstanding the disciples had about Jesus, is the type of authority that he had. Jesus made himself nothing (Phil 2) and did not consider equality with God something to be grasped. He completely gave up his positional authority. But this did not mean that he gave up his headship. No, in fact he demonstrated his headship for us through his death on the cross. The disciples thought that Jesus would be the political leader that overthrew the Romans. How wrong they were and how wrong we are to associate headship with positional authority.
Women CAN be the lead or head pastor of a church. They can be elders. Merely because the bible does not mention women elders does not mean they cannot be an elder. The bible never mentions freedom for slaves, in fact it instructs slaves to obey their masters. But reading the bible holistically, we know that slavery is against God's intention. Reading the bible holistically, we realize that women were in positions of highest authority.
I must bring up Deborah again. She was not only a prophet who could speak and teach God's word, but also a judge. She was the supreme authority of the land during her time. She reported only to God. How could she be a godly woman and submit to her husband? These two things were never mutually exclusive. How could she be gentle? Why not? Is a gentle woman leader impossible? Of course not.
Headship is servanthood. By giving us men headship, God expects us to serve, love, lift up and encourage women. Part of this, a large part, is to encourage women to realize their potential. If this includes leading or being a senior pastor of a church, then she ought to be encouraged by the men around her rather than discouraged or even rebuked. I will encourage my wife to preach, teach, lead and do whatever God has gifted and called her to do. That is how I will show my headship in our relationship. I will encourage her to do things that she fears. I will let her know that other people do not know what they're talking about when they tell her she cannot lead men or teach them.
I have to get in on this, too. This is in response to vampslayr2 and ladyarmsworthy in regards to Gen 3.
I just spent a few minutes looking at the Hebrew. When Eve speaks in 3:2 she uses the first person plural, "we", of course meaning that neither are allowed to eat from it. Nothing much, yet.
Now in 3:3 Eve says, "and from the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden," God said ('amar), "you (qal imperfect 2 masculine plural) are not to eat from it and you (qal imperfect 2 masculine plural) are not to touch at it, lest you (qal imperfect 2 masculine plural) die."
Two things here. First, the word used for "said ('amar)" in talking about God did, means that He is being quoted. In fact, the same word is uesd to introduce what the serpent has said in the previous verse. Yes, Eve is quoting God. (This is the classic Hebrew quote formula, the qal stem, both the perfect and the waw-consecutive form.) The translators who chose to use quote marks were wise in using a modern convention to represent an ancient one.
Second, all the forms, as parsed above, show that each time Eve quotes God, she uses the 2nd person plural. As pointed out above, we know that Eve didn't sin until she took the fruit. This is shown as the Gen 3 passage plays out: in 3:11 God asks if the fruit was eaten, not if Eve lied. Because she was quoting God as talking to at least two people, she must have heard the restriction.
What are we to make of the difference in the quote from above (What God said to Adam)? God was talking and interacting with Adam and Eve every day. I am sure He got the chance to tell them anything He wanted to. And if God chose to be more specific or more harsh, then that was His prerogative. To say that Eve was lying seems like a bigger jump than God also telling her and Adam the command together.
God did approach Adam first. But this does not mean that he had any authority over Eve. We are not told the significance of the order God approaches the two here. But what we do know is that each participant in this sin is responsible only for their own actions: the man, the woman and the serpent. If woman had not received any consequences for her sin then that would certainly point the argument in a different direction. But she does receive quite harsh consequences for her sin. As does Adam, and the serpent.
Do not assume headship in a pre-Fall, just-as-God-intended world. As SearchingForTreasures has pointed out, Eve being called a 'helper' doesn't mean subordinate. And as Randplaty has pointed out, neither does headship as outlined in the NT mean 'positional authority'.
-BA in Biblical Languages, and MA in Applied Linguistics
"Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy." + 1 Peter 1:16 KJV
"Take ye heed, watch and pray: for ye know not when the time is." + Mark 13:33 KJV
Dear sisters in Christ --specifically searchingfortreasures, ladysarmsworthy, randplaty, and also anyone else who believes that the Bible teaches that women can be pastors:
The fact is that it is NOT biblical at all for women to be pastors or elders. It is grievously contrary to what God has described in His Word and for His people. Please beware and reject these false, unbiblical practices in our generation.
Please read the following Biblical answers:
"For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that are wanting, and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed thee: 6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly." + Titus 1:5,6 KJV
“This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. 2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; 3 Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; 4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; 5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?) 6 Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7 Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil. 8 Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre; 9 Holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience. 10 And let these also first be proved; then let them use the office of a deacon, being found blameless. 11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. 12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. 13 For they that have used the office of a deacon well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.” + 1 Timothy 3:1-14 KJV
Being the "husband of one wife" and a man "that ruleth well his own house" means that the husband/man described must be a male (not female!), which God clearly has written in His Word. Also, the same for a deacon. In 1 Timothy 3:12, biblical deacons are clearly described to be "the husbands of one wife" --God is speaking of male deacons, not female "deaconnesses." Verse 11 does describe the wives of deacons (but they are not called "deaconnesses"). Some may refer to Phebe as a "deaconness," but she was simply a servant and not given a church office or leadership role in the church.
Women are NOT to hold church office or oversight in Christ's church. The Scriptures are quite clear on that point. If anyone would like to disagree or contest this, please interpret then what "usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence" means below:
"Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." 1 Timothy 2:11-14 KJV
Also read:
"For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. 34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only? 37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. 38 But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant." + 1 Corinthians 14:33-38 KJV
Therefore, it is plain and clear that so-called remale "pastors" (and "deaconnesses" who hold official church roles and offices) are NOT biblical, and violate the Holy Word of God. Anyone (male or female) who think or practice otherwise have been sadly deceived and misled in that area, and to continue on after reading what God has to say about the matter, would be disobedient to and must answer to Him. And this, regardless of what Seminary they have been taught from or currently teaching at. The Scriptures are clear, plead to God to convict you of His truth so strongly that you will know through His Word, by His Spirit. I'll keep you all in prayers.
"But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen." + 2 Peter 3:18 KJV
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I agree with Graydon (ladyarmsworthy) on this one. I am no Hebrew or Greek scholar, but I feel the Bible is clear. I am really surprised that this is so controversial, actually.
On a more personal note, nothing makes me feel more like a woman than being led, protected, and looked after by a man (husband, father, Christain brother, etc). I think that is godly. It is pretty special, for me as a woman, that God would give men such a role. It's like an extra earthly guardian...it's sweet! In no way do I find it oppressive, demeaning, or limiting in my gifting or in my desires to serve God. Nor do I feel second rate or any less intimate with God than my fellow brothers.
By the way, there is a lot of talk about what headship is not and one mention of what it actually is, though (no disrespect intended here) I feel the definition contradicted itself calling it spiritual authority but then stating that this authority does not apply in church, a spiritual institution. So what does headship mean if not authority and leadership?
I didn't complete my thought on headship. Headship was also described as servanthood. Even in Jesus's servanthood and surrender of self you cannot deny His authority. Why did the pharisees get all in an uproar? ...because of His displayed authority--He was putting Himself on the same level as God. And you can't deny His authority and leadership today and the authority and leadership He will have in the future when every knee shall bow to Him (also in Phil.2). When the Bible compares man's headship over women to Jesus's headship over the church...it's easy to see that yes it means servanthood and unconditional love, but also authority and leadership.
Ladylindsay is a clear example of the classic confusion between headship and positional authority. If headship is spiritual authority why doesn't it apply in the church a spiritual institution? It does apply in the church. Spiritual authority OF COURSE applies in the church. It's the fact that we misunderstand what spiritual authority is. You want to apply POSITIONAL authority or worldly authority in the church. That is the classic misunderstanding.
Where in the bible does it mention headship and a position? The bible says "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." (Eph 5:25). He mentions headship in the verses prior, and then shows the example of sacrifice. That is what headship means. It makes no mention of a position. Yes you said it right, it means servanthood.
As a man myself, I would love it if the bible said that headship meant positional authority. Unfortunately it does not, and as much as I would like that positional authority, it is not mine. It is not meant to be desired. That authority is worldly and UNspiritual and UNbiblical.
We are not denying Jesus' authority. What we are saying is that Jesus denied his own positional authority. Phillipians 2 says that Jesus did not consider equality with God something to be grasped but made himself nothing. That is what headship is. He completely gave up his own positional authority so he could show what headship really meant. Headship is the self denial of positional authority.
"Jesus called them together and said, "You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant." (Mark 10:42-43.) Spiritual authority has NOTHING to do with positional authority or "exercising authority." What it has to do with, is servanthood. If anything, Jesus is calling men to serve their wives. That is what headship means. They have the responsibility of service, not teaching preaching or eldership or pastorship or anything else. I think THAT is pretty clear from the bible.
I also think the bible is very clear on this issue also after studying it. I think the biggest trap that people fall into with this issue is to read it and say, "It seems pretty clear to me." They don't consider the contradictions in that come up in the bible in ascribing to a complementarian point of view. (Deborah was a judge and exercised authority over men.) They don't consider the contradictions that come up in the church or the mission field. (women teach and lead men in the mission field where there are no male leaders are not permitted to do so at their home church.) They don't consider the contradictions in their own lives. (Women who believe that women should submit to the authority of men in scripture go on xanga and teach men like me how to read the scripture.)
It's a little deeper than that. Think about it. Please consider.
"That authority is worldly and unscriptural and unbiblical."
I mean that DESIRE for that authority is worldly and unscriptural and unbiblical.
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