May 12, 2004
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Talks with Roommates about Relationships
PS and I were talking the other night about "under-cover relationships." We don't understand the phenomenon behind people having under-cover relationships. You know the kind. The ones where you find out about 2 months later that two people in your fellowship are dating, and you feel completely shocked because you've never even seen them talk to each other. What's up with that? As I see it, there are two ways to go about it when you've hooked up with someone: 1. "let's just let them find out gradually" and 2. "let's call up all our friends." I prefer #2. When you hook up, tell us! We want to rejoice with you. Also, invite the accountability!!
On talking about the last Gilmore Girls episode:
Me: I can't believe Lorelai is dating Luke!
CK: It's so weird! They're opposites!
Me: ...hrm...but opposites attract!
CK: Yeah, fatal attraction.
Comments (10)
OMG, you posted it.
On undercover relationship, I totally agree with you MA. I don't understand the motivation behind this behavior. It sucks even more for the girl when the guy don't recognize you for who you are in public. That's like being a mistress (but not as bad)! hahaha...GIRLS, pressure your boyfriends to call up everyone to make the annoucements when you guys hooked up!
HAHAHA being a mistress. that was hilarious cindy. : ) undercover relationsihps reminds me of high school pseudos.. dude so sad that adults still do stuff like that
doesn't number 2 almost seem like bragging a bit. i know that's not the motivation, but it can seem like the person is bragging some. however, when people are engaged, it's almost a necessity to call your closest friends and say that you are engaged. but dating...hmm...i'm not so sure. why not just post it on xanga, and go from there? hehe.
Hee hee.. you and I think alike Mary Ann. Yes. I don't know what's up with those undercover relationships. I mean, why and try to deliberately hide it? Are they ashamed? Also, I have another term that Aya and I made up way back in our high school days... "So-Called-Not-Boyfriends". The term speaks for itself.. heh heh heh
Lorelai is dating luke?!??! oh MAN i'm so behind on gilmore girls.
ahha i like the #2 option too
it's more fun that way
I think that option #2 is very smart, less stressful, and biblical. hehe. first time i've seen anyone suggest it! it's almost always under cover when it comes to church.
do people still do that post-20 years old?? that's silly! one should always tell close friends whenever something big happens in your life. why hide a relationship?
oh gosh lorelai is dating luke! i gave up on that show mths ago and now things are happening?! oi
ahh yes i agree abt the necessity to drop the undercover relationship.. accountability ppl!
i kind of did #1 hahaha... :-/
Hey Mary Ann,
Read what I wrote about "Ninja" dating! ;D
In His grace,
Vic.
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