July 16, 2009
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Tales from the trenches of the third trimester (from a gestational diabetic)
As my pregnancy is coming down to the last month, I realize that there’s one thing I will really miss about it. I will miss the connection I have with our little baby. Right now, our lives are intertwined. When s/he moves, I am completely aware of it… and it’s special. The rolls and jabs are like evidences of little miracles, reminders that there’s a little life inside. Later on, if I want to see or touch the baby, I will have to physically go to where s/he is. Right now, it’s constant, continual, ongoing. Yup, that’s definitely what I will miss.
But there’s one thing about pregnancy I won’t miss. In this last trimester, I have had to adjust to a new lifestyle as a diabetic, with the pressure that if I don’t adhere closely to the dietary plan, I will bring risk to the baby. I’m thankful that God has given me a new found compassion for diabetics, but it has been challenging! Here’s a little of what it has looked like. (A record mostly for me to remember in the future.)
Every morning when I wake up, I take 1/2 of a glyburide pill (glyburide is a catalyst for insulin) immediately and take my blood sugar level before rolling out of bed. The diabetic nurse said that getting up to walk around could skew my measurement, so I should do it immediately while still in bed.
Taking my blood sugar level includes pricking my finger, squeezing blood out, putting in the test strip, getting the blood into the strip, then recording the measurement. The first one in the morning has to be below 89.
After I get out of bed, I wait an hour before I eat anything, so that the glyburide can kick in. I’m usually pretty hungry while I wait, but it’s gotten easier as time has gone by, and my stomach has gotten used to the discipline.
For breakfast, I can have 1 slice of whole wheat bread (if the total carbohydrates is 15 g or less), 2 eggs and 2 turkey bacon. No milk or fruit. An hour after the start time of my breakfast, I prick myself and test my blood sugar again. The reading should be below 129.
Usually, I have my “snack” right after I test my breakfast blood sugar because a whole hour has had to pass and I am usually pretty hungry. At this point, I usually have a yogurt (must be below 15 g of total carbs) and then some nuts. I try to wait as long as possible before I eat lunch though because if I have lunch too soon, my blood sugar will be too high.
At lunch, I’ll have 1/2 cup brown rice, plus some kind of protein (beef, chicken) and veggies. An hour after I started eating, I test my blood sugar again. Like at breakfast, my reading should be below 129. Before the weather got so hot, I would usually take a 15-20 minute walk right after I ate because that helped make my blood sugar level go down. Exercise works like a charm. Unfortunately, it’s been so hot lately, and I haven’t been able to come up with a good alternative.
The hardest stretch is between lunch & dinner and dinner & bedtime. There are so many hours in between, and I’m allotted only 1 starch or 1 milk or 1 fruit. However, I can have as much protein & veggies as I want.
Dinner is the same as lunch – in terms of portions and taking glucose measurements. I try to take a 15-20 minute walk after dinner as well.
The after dinner/before bedtime snack is more generous than the other snack allotments. At this time, I can have 1 milk and 1 starch (instead of one or the other), plus a protein. I usually have 1 slice of wheat bread with a slice of cheese and a cup of whole milk. (Interesting, 1% or 2% milk may be less fattening but contains more total carbs. Something I learned from the diabetes nurse is that anything lowfat or fatfree has more carbs in it because sugar is added to make it more tasty.)
Before bedtime, I usually take 1 glyburide pill. If I don’t go to sleep within an hour of taking the pill, I get really hungry (since the glyburide is inducing insulin production).
That’s pretty much my day – every day. And, everyday, I also record everything I’ve eaten as well as all my blood sugar level readings in a document. At the end of the week, I send it to a nurse who monitors and evaluates my numbers and calls me to tell me if I’m doing everything right or wrong.
One thing I’ve found is that going out to eat is committing blood sugar suicide. Even if I’m careful about what I choose from the menu, my glucose inevitably skyrockets. Even salads are dangerous because of the sugar in dressing or the tasty fruits added (mandarin oranges, dried cranberries, etc). Everything else has tons of starch. The only 2 places I’ve been able to eat have been Tofu House and El Pollo Loco. But the upside has been that since I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes, I’ve been able to eat chicken again. (If you remember, during my 1st and 2nd trimesters, eating chicken made me nauseated and caused me to vomit). Being able to eat chicken has helped so much!
The other part of gestational diabetes has been all the additional doctor visits and tests. There are two additional ultrasounds (at 32 and 35 weeks) in order to measure the baby to make sure Baby hasn’t gotten too large.
Here’s the “4d” ultrasound of Baby at 32 weeks:
I also go the doctor’s office twice a week (starting at week 34) to do “non-stress” tests for the baby. In the non-stress test, I’m hooked up to a fetal monitor. Baby’s heartbeat and my stomach’s movements are monitored. Baby has to make two major movements where heart rate goes up 15 more beats per minute than the average heart rate, lasting at least 15 seconds, and this has to happen twice in 15 minutes. If this doesn’t happen, we have to start the time over again… and wait until it does. This test is frustrating to me because sometimes the baby is sleeping. If the baby doesn’t perform to their satisfaction, I would have to go to the hospital post haste and do more stringent tests that last for a few hours.
The hardest part of gestational diabetes is not being able to eat whatever I want. With pregnancy comes cravings, and it’s been difficult to deny those cravings. Sometimes the cravings are so strong, I’m afraid that I will give in. Fortunately, there’s only 2 more weeks until I am full-term and 5 more weeks before the baby MUST come out. One month — manageable, possible, within sight…hopefully. Then I will get to see this little baby face-to-face…and go back to my normal diet!
Comments (14)
wow.. congratulations… things must be really difficult for you… but you sound like you’re doing great, and that you’d be an amazing mom.
have you tried soymilk? i’m a vegetarian and i’ve even got my sister (who is a die-hard meat eater) to switch over to it. (it helps curb my BIL’s farting, apparently. hehe.) if you’re wanting to drink milk, that might be a good alternative. I drink Silk soymilk. There is an unsweetened kind (comes in a green carton) that I personally love, but most people like the regular or the light version. I don’t know what the carb content is, but I’m sure it’s worth checking out, even in these last months. plus, it’s super good for you. =) you can make it. the end is in sight!
oh man.. that sounds SO hard. i can’t even imagine it. thanks for sharing.. it’s good to get a sense for how things have been for you. almost there! you look so cute with your belly! not sure if you know, but i’m expecting too! due in november
i think it’s crazy that all 3 of us are expecting.. just like how we all got married around the same time
aww… that is really tough. I’m taking a maternity/obgyn class for nursing school now so we’ve been learning all about gestational diabetes, and it does sound so hard for the mom. Mommies have to give soo much to protect the well-being of the baby… it is no small task. Big cheers to you for making it this far and you will make it through with flying colors!!
Mmmm…I don’t know if your doctor or nurses have mentioned this to you, and I hate to be somewhat the bearer of bad news… but the risk of developing Type 2 Diabetes for women who had gestaional diabetes during pregnancy, after about anywhere from 5-15 yrs after delivery, is considerably higher….
So… as a nurse-in-training…I feel obligated to warn you that you may not really be able to eat “whatever you want” after delivery. You’ll definitely have WAY more liberty than you do now, but you will have to be careful to still watch your diet and exercise patterns after baby comes, to minimize risk of diabetes in the future. Just wanted to look out for you.
You’re a beautiful mommy and I’m thankful for the Lord’s grace over you thus far!!
Thanks for being so honest about how your pregnancy is going. That’s a LOT of discipline you have there, Mary Ann. It inspires me to be more disciplined and take care of my own responsibilities.
You are taking good care of your baby, just like I know you will post-labor. Motherhood is so sacrificial. Makes me want to thank my mom for all the ways that she has sacrificed for me.
what a beautiful pic Mary Ann! You seriously look so good
minus all the blood sugar testing, welcome to the world of a dieter. haha… there is a diet called the scarsdale diet that follows a VERY similar meal plan.
i don’t envy your situation at all, but this experience gives you valuable empathy for people who live with diabetes every day and anyone who may ever go through gestational diabetes. it’s cool that you’re documenting it so well. great post
@tareshannon - shannon, you don’t even know half of it! yeah, i definitely have more compassion for diabetics… and sadly, it’s also pretty highly likely that i will get type 2 diabetes later on also, so it’ll be a lifetime of denial. i think what’s been hard during this though is the knowing that my choices really affect another little life. seems like type 2s have a little more freedom in what they can eat and the meds they can take. BUT…it’s almost over, praise the Lord!!
@alinus - yup, unfortunately, i know that all too well that i will likely have type 2 diabetes. but fortunately, i can still ‘eat what i want’ right after delivery — as in some gummy bears, sour worms, and some french fries. i think you’ll find after being a nurse for awhile that it’s ok to let new moms indulge. my diabetes nurses understand that it’s ok to let gestational diabetic moms indulge in a little ice cream once a week or a piece of chocolate so that she can make it through the week. it won’t kill the baby.
@searchingfortreasures - Yay for great nurses who are taking care of you! I’m definitely soaking in every bit of information and advice to help me become a more empathetic and better nurse. Sorry…I didn’t mean to harshly imply in any way that you don’t get to indulge at all after delivery. I only meant that caution is still needed… not only for you, but really for all of us! Which you knew already. I think you are doing an amazing job and I appreciate your honest posts in processing through your experience of pregnancy. You’re a wonderful mommy!!
i came across your blog through momaroo…
first of all, congratulations on your pregnancy.
secondly, i have so much to say…i feel like i could’ve written this entry. as i was reading your entry, i was having flashbacks of when i was pregnant…=S
i have 2 kids (4 yrs and 22.5 months) and i had gd with both of them. i love my kids, but i hated being pregnant. aside from having gd, i was also nauseous pretty much the whole pregnancy (with both) and that did not make things any easier.
with my first pregnancy, i wasn’t gaining enough weight…i ate as much as i could (usually short of the amount that the nutritionist had mapped out for me). i had the nutritionist breathing down my neck. telling me that i needed to eat more and gain more weight (nobody in my life has ever told me that =P). i ended up gaining 11 lbs with my first.
with my second, on top of the nausea and the gd, i also had a toddler with dietary restrictions due to allergies (no nuts, no dairy). meal times were quite an ordeal…most days, i had to prepare something for us to eat (thankfully, my husband eats pretty much whatever i put in front of him) and something totally different for my daughter to eat 2-3 times a day.
yes, not being able to eat whatever you want is the hardest part. when i was feeling nauseous, i was literally shoving food down my throat in order to survive.
with my first pregnancy, i ate salad with everything (usually tossed in a splash of balsamic vinegar, olive oil, and pepper)…and i don’t know if it’s because of the salad, but my numbers were lower. i don’t know where you live, but i ate a lot of in-n-out (cheeseburger, no sauce) and it was a good balanced meal.
i’m glad that it’s almost over for you…indulge yourself after the baby comes! i had my husband bring a treat everyday while i was in the hospital!
many blessings to you in your last few weeks and also a smooth delivery!
looking good from the pic. =P. i love the big belly. good luck in these next few weeks. we’ll be praying for you. keep us posted. =P.
@chester413 - Thanks so much for writing. I can’t tell you how nice it is to hear from someone telling me that it was very, very difficult for them personally. Most people (mainly those who did not have it) have said to me “don’t worry; it’s not a big deal” — especially when I first found out about it. It made me frustrated b/c it IS a very big deal having to follow a very strict diet. And pricking yourself 4 times a day does not get easier. (I think I’m beginning to dig into the same hole??) It might’ve been easier to deal with if I had an easier pregnancy the first 2 trimesters, but, like you, I was vomiting all the time and could only eat certain foods. Pregnancy is tough. I admire that you decided to have a #2 despite all the challenges of #1. You are a true hero in my book! And your 2 kids are so lucky to have such a wonderfully sacrificial, selfless mommy like you. I hope your hubby is able to appreciate that!!
So you were able to eat the In-N-Out burgers? I’ve avoided going there b/c I thought the bread would amount to too much total carbs. I’ll have to try it. Thanks for the tip. I’m also in socal…let me know if you have any other tips to survive the rest of this GD pregnancy. — Mary Ann
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