July 17, 2008
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Thank you, Mom
Our baby girl is at the stage where she puts everything into her mouth.
Even weird bad stuff. The worse is when I turn around and see her
chewing on something, and I know I haven’t given her any food. It’s
usually some small piece of something that fell on the floor. Gross!
Yesterday, as I checked our baby’s mouth again for the upteenth time
with her wailing unhappily at me because I was removing the special
treasure she had found, I said, “You’ll thank me one day.” But then I
realized that she probably won’t. I mean, can you imagine. “Mama Mary
Ann, thank you for keeping me from eating gross stuff off the floor.”
That never dawns on any kid, really. Well, except today.Today, on my birthday, I wanted to thank my mom:
Thanks, Mom, for all the times you kept me from putting bad stuff in my
mouth. Thanks for all those times you saved me from touching things I
shouldn’t have — because it might’ve hurt me. Thanks for keeping me
from falling down and hitting my head on hard surfaces. Thanks for
picking me up and carrying me around, even when you had your hands full
of something else. Thanks for hunching down to hold my hand so that you
could help me learn to walk – even though it probably hurt your back
and, many times, would’ve been a lot faster for you to just carry me
from place to place. Thanks for feeding me, spoon-feeding me, as
tiresome as it might’ve been. Thanks for picking up the food off the
ground that I threw and for wiping my mouth and my runny nose. Thanks
for giving me baths every day and changing my poopy diapers (even
though it stunk so bad you wanted to throw up). Thank you, Mom, for the
sleep you had to lose as you watched over me in my sleep and woke up in
the middle of the night to feed me. Thank you for sacrificing your own
sleep time when I was napping so that you could take care of things
around the house or get ready for me when I woke up again. Thank you,
Mom, especially for letting me invade your body for 9 months and making
you feel sick all the time and uncomfortable – and especially for the
pain of child birth. Without you, there would be no ‘me’ here today as
I am. Happy Day to you, not me, for a miracle and thirty years of
selfless dedication. I love you, Mom!
Comments (2)
ah, so this is why my mom always told us we’d understand a little bit better once we became moms ourselves.
happy birthday!
Very cool, Mary Ann. Happy birthday… and why does your mom look like she’s in her twenties? Hope she passed the “young” genes down to you.